Clarity & Perspective Counseling

Greetings! Heal from attachment wounds so that you can be the best version of yourself in your relationship and in marriage! What is Attachment? Attachment is how safe your body feels depending on other people If your body learned: People are safe then closeness feels okay People are unreliable then closeness feels urgent People are intrusive or rejecting then closeness feels suffocating People are dangerous then closeness feels confusing What is an Attachment Wound? An attachment wound is a moment (or pattern of moments) when your body learned: "When I need someone, I am not safe" What actually creates an attachment wound? An attachment wound forms when 3 things happen together: 1) Vulnerability (fear, sadness, need, excitement, dependence) 2) A needed person (parent, caregiver, partner, attachment figure) 3) A rupture without repair -a needed person ignored you -a needed rejected you -a needed person caused you to feel shame -a needed person abandoned you -a needed person frightened ypou -a needed person was emotionally unavailable The wound is not the rupture, its no repair afterward. “An attachment wound isn’t about what happened to you — it’s about what your body learned about closeness and safety.” How our Healing From Attachment Wounds AF-EMDR Group Intensive helps you heal attachment wounds: The healing mechanism (what actually changes) Attachment wounds are stored as: body sensations emotional responses implicit expectations survival strategies AF-EMDR uses bilateral stimulation (BLS) + attachment-focused resourcing to help the brain: unstick frozen emotional memory metabolize unmet needs replace danger with safety install new relational expectations What happens after your attachment wounds are healed: When an attachment wound heals, your nervous system stops reacting to the present as if the past is happening again. -That single shift creates massive personal and relational benefits. Heal your attachment wounds to be a better version of yourself for yourself, your relationship and in marriage. If you are interested in our Healing From Attachment Wounds AF-EMDR Group Intensive have your therapist submit a referral by clicking the link below: https://form.typeform.com/to/qLsfG0ag .